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  1. #1
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    Jun 2007
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    Wink Perhaps

    My I submit to you that you may be asking the wrong question. You're human of course you may find someone whom you're attracted to, that is just what we are as a species.

    I recognize your feelings and I can relate to your quandary perhaps a better question to ask is "what needs is my current relationship not meeting ?"

    You see if your needs where being met in your current relationship then this attraction wouldn't have the "significance" it has currently. The law of cause and effect does apply here. The attraction to this young man I "suspect" is the effect or symptom of some specific mental, emotional or spiritual need not being met elsewhere in your life.

    Look within hard and honest (since the human ego will work to prevent this) starting with your relationship and find what is "lacking" and that "may" be the root cause.

    I'm not going to judge you like others and say you are this or that because in my view or personal delusion you're just a woman having a human experience trying to figure it all out like the rest of us.

    Be well


    Lee Dreams

  2. #2
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    Jun 2007
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    Hi alex..its probably only a crush..dun let urself get carried away..U know the serious consequences..the judgemental looks from others..there's always a beeter guy out there..if u r tired of ur current relationship, mayb its better to just take a break ?

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