Hi, I think that 6 months just might not be enough time after 30 years of marriage. Do not rush it. Sure go out and have some fun, but we need time to heal before we start getting into new relationships. I heard that it actually takes half the time you were in a relationship to get over a relationship. 30 years is a long time and if that rule were true it would take 15 years to get over, but do not worry it should not take that long.. In order to date again, you must be truly ready on the inside. This is a good time to learn about yourself and spend some time with yourself. It will get better! I wrote an article about emotions after a breakup!
jennshealthstore.hubpages.com/hub/We-just-broke-up-How-am-I-suppose-to-feel