Dude, stairing othes is not bad, if u r true. but ur intension beyond ur partner is something different then it may be problem for lots one.
so keep communicating with ur partner and try to understand him/her more and shows ur love and trust to feel him trusty one...
Check him/her cares u or not ...
Use ur extreme sense to test him/her..
bottom line is ..."Never believe anybody Blindly"