All men look, however, there are a lot of qualifiers. If you relationship is great, then who cares if he looks! If it is not so great, then maybe you have a problem. But is the problem that you are jealous or do you not trust him. Those are two different things.

I am married but didn't meet my husband until I was 35, so I have lots of miserable experiences to draw on. Honestly, I don't care if my husband looks. I think it's kind of funny...but then again I trust him completely.

And yes, my husband does wash dishes and takes care of our daughter...but that is it! No lawn mowing, no fixing things, no nothing unless I get mad. Oh well.