Quote Originally Posted by apeng View Post
Broken dreams,

There is no such thing as best friends among opposite sex. They are attraction to each other disguise as close friendship. If you want him go for him. If he wants you he will accept you. The conseqeuence is if it doesn't work, you will lose him as what you call your best friend. He is just as fair game as anyone you meet in the street.

Good luick.
I beg to disagree. My best friend is a girl and we've been such since 1995. My wife and her are good friends. Platonic relationships are possible between men and women I believe.

Anyway, Broken Dreams, it really is up to you if you want to risk it. Some friendships can survive it, others can't. How strong is your relationship with this guy? Do you have any idea how he might feel about you? If you do get together and then break up, would your friendship be lost as well? Loving ultimately, is a risk. So be wary. Look before you leap. Best of luck girl.