So there is this new girl I met I really want to hang out with, but everytime I get around her she stays for like 3 minutes and then wanders off. I'm extremely shy when she is around so I feel like a complete tool with no game. Is there any way for me to get over this shyness and just be me?

Also, my ex is still around to, and wants us back together and I kind of do to, but we just fight alot. And so therefore I want to hang with this other girl even more to see if there is a connection and whether or not I should give my ex another chance. I'm not real big on relationships, or relationship experience as I have avoided them in the past.

So any ideas?