Quote Originally Posted by gamblinjohn View Post
Not that I could give you advice on what to do, but maybe I can help you think about some things.

I'm the same age as you, but I'm a guy, and I don't have kids and never been married. But I can tell you, that my parents divorced when I was four and my sister was eight....
Great response!

Gamblinjohn is right. You are your childrens role model. You need to show them what a functional and loving relationship is like. Just don't make a drastic change if you are not 100% sure about your reationship with this new guy.