This is AidahLena Mohd Noh,live at KGBatong,Brunei with my big family.I completed my gradutaion recently.Iam in love with a guy called Ravi for past three years,who is working as SoftwareAnalyst for SHELL.Recently we are engaged without knowledge of elders as they opposing our relation bcoz he is indian and non-muslim(hindu).In one of situation,we slept together also i.e had sex.Now my big family is against my decision of marrying him.They threatning me to go away from brunei and i should never visit them i.e when i get marry to him.His family is supporting us.He is ready to embrace islam to marry me.we love each other very much and iam very sure i can be happy if he is my life partner.Since childhood i have'nt got proper attention & love from my family and since three years iam so happy by his love and care.I told my family that i had slept with him and he is ready to convert into islam,still they are saying 'no'.If you are in my position,what u will do.