If I were you I would WAKE THE F*CK UP!!! What is the divorce rate again?? If you have to go to couples counselling BEFORE your married then it's not a good idea to get married. Bottom line this guys a moron and you've been to good to him for to long. You should have known better then to take him back when he broke it off before and went to skank it up with some hoe. Obviously he's gonna be doin the hoe as soon as she moves to Cali. My advise is to leave him now. It's better to have a broken heart than a broken heart and broken pride.