Ask yourself - "Why are the relationships I'm involved complicated?"

What are you doing to make them so stressful or what is the other person doing? The harder you try and make a relationship a success the harder it will be to accomplish.

I'll give you a tip - a relationship should be like this:

On a Saturday night you both are on the sofa, one at one end and the other at the other end. Your legs are stretched out next to each others. She is reading a book and the guy is watching Sportscenter - very few words are spoken through out the evening and then a simple look indicates it is time to get naked and go to the bedroom. In the morning you wake up in the morning with a smile and say to yourself - damn that was wonderful and repeat that the next evening.

That's what makes a meaningful relationship.