Blog Exchange for Adult Sites?

Help! I have gone through all of the Blog Exchange sites that have been listed in the forum but it looks like every one of them will not allow my blog :( I have an adult blog but it's really not porno but it does have sexual content.

I am having a terrible time getting traffic to my site and have run out of ideas. Leave it to me to decide to build a blog on the topic of sex...lol. I guess I had no idea it would be this hard to get it advertised. I can get it linked to a bunch of porno junk sites but I don't want that.

Can anyone offer any suggestions to me? It would be soooo much appreciated. I need all the help I can get. If you know of any Blog Exchange sites that would accept my site, please please let me know. Take a look at my blog so it will give you an idea as to why I'm having problems getting accepted into blog exchanges.

[url="http://www.wetalksexblog.com"][/url]Thanks so much for your help!

MsDonna

Bumping this up because I would also like information on this. I've just started up a resource site for erotica writers. So far, I've only listed at blog directories, however, my next step is to get listed in some of Yahoo's and Google's directories. Have you tried those?

Maybe surf the net and do link exchanges with other adult content websites. Not all of them are neccessarily porn. Look into erotica writers and artists as well as other forums where the main subject is sex such as Literotica or Desdmona.

I'm new to the marketing arena myself and really don't know what I'm doing but I hope these suggestions help anyway.