its easy, youre looking for a reason to leave, and ur using this old info as the way out, putting blame on her..............be a man.tell her u dont love her, and leave without making her the badguy........just a marrriage that the love has died in.no charge!

It's clear that you love this woman. Your feeling comes from a deep voice in your subconcious that keeps telling you she is better than you or that you don't deserve her for some reason. Try to reframe your mind frame and implement other thoughts that say: "you are the king , and no one is better than you! all women dream to be with you and have sex with you!" and act on it. Assume it. Soon it will become part of your personality , and those little jealousy feelings will vanish. You will also become much more appealing. Alternatively you could learn how to provide her with multiple orgasms and dominate the "other" parts that are left, that she doesn't even know exist. You will be the over all king in total. By the way, did she ask you about your past pre-marriage ventures as well?

Well incidents like this can take a heavy toll on the mind understandably, but as you have said that the case is too old and further you also love her. So taking into account these points why dont you look for the positives rather than rewinding yourself? Again this may sound harsh but if you have an intend to take a revenge or anything sort of this then you can find yourself another woman with whom you can have an affair just to make her feel. But still this will not be a good idea, things resolved mutually will benefit both I feel.

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everybody has a past, even you. You must also fall in love with some other women and perhaps having sex with her before you meet your present wife. That's exactly the same thing that happen with your wife. it's just that the girl you make love with at that time was not the wife of her cousin.
So don't take it as she make love with your cousin husband. It's just she a woman making love with a man before she finally met you. cheers!

Originally Posted by blurred

Hello all, quick history on my situation. Married-going on twelve years, mid thirties.wife early thirties. Lately we (and I mean "I") have been brigning up her old "flames" while making love asking her specific questions on what she has actually done. Handjobs in highschool, places where she had sex and stuff like that. Now before we got together she had sex with my cousins husband not knowing he was married and soon broke it off after finding out the truth. now this happend almost thirteen years ago and I am still having a huge problem letting it go, it's tearing me apart inside. I have tried to bury it deep inside me but just dont know how to do it matter of fact just recently it has been out of control, now I dont lash out at her or our kids it's just something inside that is killing me.I talked to her about it and she says thats just part of her history and I know that she is right, I know it's me I just want to find a way to get rid of this feeling I have inside. I do love this woman and I feel Im shutting her out unintentionally. Anybody out there have a similiar situation happen to them and how did you cope with it?? Thanks for listening.

Of course everyone has a past, but I agree with blurred on getting to know someone before entering into a marriage contract with them. If it was any other form of contract, you'd do research & check references, etc... Why not for marriage. Who wants to deal with some psycho a month into things?
Cheers.
Linda

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