Who else here has given up on relationships..?

[relationshipcafe.blogspot]

I this from a friend in my personal chat forum on yahoo

Please everyone post your comments on this topic......

Hi, relationshipcafe
I realize I don't want to extend myself anymore for a romantic relationship. I guess I'm tired...tired of the initial meeting and scrutiny, tired of the work of getting to know someone, tired of the emotional anxiety which seemed to always ensue.
Happily content in solitude here, I can't envision having a man invading my space, and this is coming from someone who only and ALWAYS wanted a love of my life!
Maybe it's an age thing.... but I'm no longer willing to compromise myself and my own interests, needs for a man.
Does any one or you have this feeling, or am I just sick?

[abbiedoobie]

It's easier to find what your looking for when your not looking at all. Your friend is putting to much effort into it. When they relax and focus their energy on something else than the perfect opportunity may come along.

[ShErbO]

Hi,

I guess we all get that feeling of disappointment with relationships and the other sex. But let's be realistic though - you don't want to stay alone forever.
I think this feeling is caused by a lack of understanding of your partners feelings, or maybe of love in general. I can't claim to understand everything, but we should all try to. Don't lose hope

[Bibba]

I know what you mean. I just don't have the energy any more for the hard work that relationships always seem to be. I've come to love being alone and can't ever see myself in any serious relationship again. My life is full and I do as I please.

[JacobJen]

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